Monday, July 18, 2011

Shady grading system in college?

Say you have over 100 credit hours in college..all passing grades(mainly A's and B's), but have one Fail. Why do F's pull you down so much, it's like no matter how many A's or B's, you can't outweigh that one F. Is it nothing more than shady schools wanting to get students to retake the class to pay the money. How do the calculate GPA. The whole system seems shady.

Do I have the right not to talk to my dad? Help please!?

Don't listen to other poeple. listen to your heart if you think its right not to talk to him then don't talk to him. I'd just forget about him. Its YOUR life.

My boyfriend wants to get engaged and I don't know if I'm ready.?

In my opinion 9 months is not long enough to get engagged to someone, especially when your only 21.. Hint to him that you are not yet ready and want to concentrate on your career etc.

Pros and cons on having a farm?

I really really want a farm, but I know there's some pros and there's some cons to it. Can you tell me the pros and cons on having a farm, and which one outweighs the other? Thankx! I'll really appreciate it!!

1965 Oldsmobile 442 over heating problem? HELP!?

Okay, I have a 1965 442 that needs some help. I have all new hoses, radiator and water pump. i flush the block and the water rushed like normal. It has had multiple thermostats put in it and nothing seems to work. i am stuck in this pickle and any advice will help.

Moms: Wellbutrin cause any kind of birth defect in your child?

My husband & I want to have another baby and I've spoken with my doctor about the medications I'm currently taking. According to the warning label on the Wellbutrin it's okay for Trimesters 1 & 2 but not for Trimester 3... I'm trying to decide whether I want to risk taking it, my Dr. said ultimately it's up to me but that it's benefits outweigh the risks since stress is not good for the baby but I know I'm going to stress about putting chemicals into my body that could harm the baby. I've already given up caffeine & artificial sweeteners. I wasn't on any medications during my first pregnancy & while I was experiencing my depression & anxiety, my son seems to be fine. I'm not asking for medical advice, more for experiences from other mom's. I don't smoke or drink and only take a few medications at the moment. What I'd like to know is if anyone out there took Wellbutrin while pregnant? (Preferably just that so any issues couldn't have come from somewhere else) If so, did your baby have any birth defects or other problems? (I'm mostly worried due to the fact that it was presumed safe to take Paxil while pregnant but now there's a class action lawsuit because of many babies being born with birth defects :( ) Please only leave serious answers, i.e. don't answer just to get the points. Thanks!

IS THIS HEALTHY FOR A TEENAGE GIRL TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT?

it is healthy but it seems like your portions are too big, but it all depends how much weight you lose at the end of your first week, if you didn't lose at least 2 pounds, then you have to have smaller portions, good luck and congrats

Why do the insides of my lips turn white whenever I eat something really spicy?

When I ate a hot mama pickle my inner lips turned really white, should I stop eating them? They aren't white anymore though

Why does a person who jumps into a pool from a high board not break their leg, in Newton's terms?

If you step off a high board and drop to the water below, you plunge into the water without injury. On the other hand, if you were to drop the same distance onto solid ground, you might break a leg. Explain the difference in terms of Newton’s laws.

I got myself into quite a pickle please help!?

So last week my friend got me with the scary maze prank and i thought it was really funny, so i decided to get my grandma with the scary maze prank aswell. But it turns out i scared her to much, because she had a heart attack!!!:O.She is in the hospital and i feel quite guilty. How do i make it up to her? Is it to soon to try and scare my grandpa with the maze prank too?

Please Tell Me If These 3 Items are Compatible With The Motherboard?

They are compatible, but you'll also need a power supply of 500w or larger for that video card. The 300w that comes in your Dell is not enough to run it.

Could i be preggers????

Okay so I have pcos so my periods are really irregular... I actually had a normal one right before I went to see my guy and spent the entire weekend there... about a week or two later I started spotting but it was only for a day and a half... which is weird considering I never have my period and had already had it that month... about a week or so after that I started feeling this kinda upset feeling in my tummy... I never threw up but felt like if I had it would've gone away... umm if I am I would now be 14 weeks and I've been feeling really weird. Ill wake up and feel like I can't breathe or with heartburn or just to pee... I've gained about 6 pounds and my lower stomach is pudgy almost like I'm bloated... If I'm really still or when anything warms on my tummy I feel like little bubbles are popping inside my tummy... plus I've been craving pickles and strawberries... I took a couple of pregnancy tests when I would've been about 3 to 4 weeks but they were both negative yet the syptoms continue to get worse... oh and I'm a smoker and recently everytime I smoke I get really sick, and last week threw up.... idk what to think... help?

What is your favorite way of cooking and eating a hot-dog?

i do it the easy way: boil the hot dogs, put them on soft buns, and add mustard, ketchup, and pickle relish. yummy and fast.

Why do my negative thoughts out weigh the good?

I am in this situation too, i try to be positive but like you i worry and negative thoughts appear. It is true that that if you pretend to be positive/ confident you start to feel positive/confident, because once before an oral presentation i was freaking out as usual, but i walked up confidently and actually started to feel a bit confident. i have tried saying positive things to myself, but i dont stick with it so have never been successful. w should both make a goal that for at least two weeks we switch every negative thought with a positive one and see if it works!

Should I or Shouldn't I?

Just have fun with your wife and take it as a joke. If you lose smile and take her to a dinner out. I don't think she'll lose respect just because of arm wrestling.

Tricky job interview question?

You can find most common job interview questions and interview tips for misc job positons here - topjobs.iblogger.org

Pregnancy Symptoms....?

I usually have my period the 6-10th of every month until last month i had mine on the 19th and it was lighter then usual. Since then i have had backaches, side pains, frequent peeing, nausea, mood swings, my boyfriend said my stomach is harder and starting to pooch (he has a kid with previous gf), i use to love pickles and now the smell makes me sick, i always want ice cream, etc. But i started bleeding again the 19th of this month. it is very light compared to my usual periods. I took a first responce preg test and it said negative but im to afraid to take another. I really want to be pregnant.. Since the test said negative what else could this be signs of...?

If we are all modeled in gods image than how can he condemn homosexuals?

Before I get started I would like to point out that its been proven that homosexuality is not a choice and is 100% genetic, but if you're like the christian church and view this in the way it viewed the concept of gravity up until 1980, please stop reading now, I don't have any desire to find out what you have to say. But if not here's my point. If in fact the bible is correct in saying that we are all modeled in the image of god and combining that with the scientific proof that homosexuality cannot be controlled then how can god condemn models of himself that have done nothing but live the way he created them? and with both of these facts indisputable the bible must be wrong in either saying that homosexuality is an abominable act punishable by death or that we are modeled after god. This point in itself could discredit Christianity and certainly should discredit the bible. Thoughts? I realize some of you answering will be religious or followers of Christian faith but just for this one question use logic and your own words to answer and please attempt to keep the emotions minimal, not non existent as I surely haven't but just keep it at a level where logic and rationale outweigh emotion.

How can i find a doctor who accepts medicad for a long term patient?

My friend lives in Tunnel Hill, ga. Her condition is as follows. She is disabled, on medicad, has hip problems, and is in need of a doctor who takes medicad. She has a heart condition also. I have spent countless hours on the phone and the internet trying to locate her a doctor. I have even had doctors admit to me that they cannot get their money out of medicad, so the medicad patients suffer as of this lack of justice for the chronically ill. She is a christian woman, about 4ft. 10in. who has a zest for life; yet, she cannot find a stable doctor that will take her case.Has society come to a point as to penalize patients for the love of money? Can we put a human life on one side of the scale and the life be outweighed on the other side by a dollar? I am trying to find her a doctor to help her so that she will not run out of her heart and pain medication.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Is it easy to find a job in new jersey?

me and my family want to move far away from florida. due to family weirdos we want to go far away. so we got our eye on the atlantic states. new jersey seems to be the ticket and the craigslist showed over 100 jobs posted just today. i try to look in google for statistics and other stuff to get an idea if it would be a smart move. i know how the economy is we are struggling here we will struggle anywhere. but just wanted to hear what people say and are there labor boards or unions up there?

How long will weed stay in my system?

I smoked a blunt today for the first time in over a month. When I smoked I did it about 2 or 3 times a week for about 2 months. I quit smoking because I needed to get a job so right after I stopped smoking I started turning in applications. If I get a drug test (urine or mouth swab) to get a job within the next week or two I need to know how many days it will be before my system is clean. Do I need to drink a lot of water and I heard pickle juice works good too? I weigh about 140 and I am 5'10. Any suggestions or tips?

Community service hours?

I go to school under the grand erie district school board (south western ontario) and i was wondering if babysitting on a scheduled basis for free would count. The woman could not afford a babysitter and I did this last summer ! Help me please .

Ladies, does personality outweigh looks when looking for a partner?

If it does, then would you go for an ugly man who has a wonderful personality, loving, caring, respectable, funny etc..

English: Some verbs/slang/words?

To thunk around... is to make the sound "thunk". Something is moving in there. To take the high road is "not to degrade ones self". TO FLY OFF THE HANDLE is to become upset possibly including going on a rampage. SCROUNGING is an act of any bottom dwellwer as in a sea, forest, etc. Searching the bottom for a means of survival. "Tinkle" is what mom usu say to their little girls. Pee is also informal but used by common ppl. "To Pickle" would be to sour or to go bad. "Flatulence" doesnt mean that. If someone is called that it gen means their attitude stinks. (U do know this is escaping intestinal gas right?)

Could I have ingested benzene ( a carcinogen) if I ate a turkey sandwich with pickles?

The turkey meat contains sodium erythorbate, and the pickles contain sodium benzoate. Does this combination form benzene?

Would this make a good inspiring status?

My feet is my only carriage, So Ive got to push on through. But while Im gone, I mean: Everything's gonna be all right!" the little joys in life outweigh the problems along our path.

What is causing these colored horizontal lines on the monitor?

I just started having this problem this morning after watching a video on Youtube. But ever since, its not gone away at all! I have a Dell Inspiron Quad Core with AMD Processor. I made the mistake of having the graphics being on board instead of on a graphics card, does that mean I'll have to buy a new motherboard? Just wondering. I also have Windows 7 Professional. I tried to look in the Device Manager for display but it said it was working properly, obviously that's not the case!

Does medication do more harm than good? What's the point of taking them?

Sure there are some benefits but for my case I think the negatives outweigh the positives. Without my medication I feel more even. On meds, I feel great but as soon as it wears off I feel like crap. The highs and lows are just too much and I do not want to be dependant on them for the rest of my life. I rather feel slightly miserable than have the soaring highs and crashing lows. It's just too much for me. I think most forms of medication are a scam and a bandaid solution to a deeper problem.

How do I get my tent down faster?

The girl I sit next to in class talks to me a lot and through most of the classes we're in together I have a rager. My teacher likes to call on me to go to the board a lot though too, so I have to act like I don't hear her or bring a notebook with me to hide my *****. How can I make it go down faster?

Will I be accepted into Brown after my 4 years in the military?

Many US colleges would love to have you but the Ivies such as Brown require extremely high grades from high school and probably would not consider you. As soon as you finish the military take the SAT and you will have a better idea of what schools you can get into. Good luck in the military!

Dog park issues; what's the best way to handle this one?

I carry a cell phone with me to the dog park every visit. If this were to happen while I was there I would call the police and no one else. If the person started to take off I would calmly take the license plate number and report that with the details. The police will make a follow up visit to this offender.

At what point do the benefits of taking Adderall during pregnancy outweigh the risks?

I was taking 15mg of Adderall twice daily for 4-5 months until I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago (about 7 weeks , now). Since I stopped taking my ADHD meds, I have been very irritable, having bouts of depression and mood swings, trouble sleeping/sleeping too long, distant from loved ones, fatigued, etc. I was also taking .3 Clonidine low blood pressure med to counteract Adderall at night, and help me relax for sleep, as well as Restoril 30 mg at bedtime for sleep. I stopped everything cold turkey, and I know the Restoril is absolutely OFF the list while being pregnant, and my Psychiatrist and I decided together to see how well I would do without my other meds, but I don't feel like I'm doing so well. They are considered a Class "C" for pregnant women, which could be potentially harmful to the fetus...unless the benefits outweigh the risks. I don't want to cause any harm to my baby, but I'm really not handling things well. I have many stress factors in my life right now, and I know that could be dangerous, as well. When I was pregnant with my daughter 4 years ago, I was not on any meds and I did fine, but then my Dad committed suicide on my 8th month of pregnancy with her and I lost both Grandparents 4 months later. I no longer have a mother and sister....they want my daughter, not me. I have a loving fiance, his two awesome teenage kids and my beautiful daughter. I have much to be grateful for, but a lot that is causing me stress. I haven't felt like I was able to concentrate for 30 years of my life until the Adderral. I'm wondering if it is best I just take a smaller dosage once a day. I know I need to talk to my doctor, but I just wanted to hear from anyone here who's experienced anything similar being pregnant. Thank you.

How can I make "oldest message first" the default setting for threads on yahoo message boards.?

On my work computer and on my smartphone, when I look at a thread on a yahoo message board, it shows the oldest message first. However, on my home computer, suddenly one day it started listing the newest first, and it has stayed that way. I know how to change it for an individual thread, but how can I change it globally - so that the default for all threads is to have the oldest message first?

I'm in a pickle, need some advice/help?

Today makes me 5 days late for my period (that usually always comes on time), I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning which turned up negative. I also had a really short, one day period last month, had urine and blood tested for pregnancy, both negative. I then had cramps for a whole week or more after the one day period. This month, nothing, not even spotting. I'm starting to have a lot of pain in my mid-lower, back, my boobs don't really feel any different they what they normally feel around AF. I've noticed my hair is starting to fall out, I would describe it more like shedding. I am sexually active and my boyfriend uses the withdraw method so I know there is a chance that I could be pregnant any month. I am really confused as to what is happening in my body. I know they say that stress can do that to you, but I don't think I'm really any more stressed out than normal. I've been getting pretty emotional lately, so every morning, I jump out of bed and go to the bathroom to see if I've started. What should I do? I don't have insurance, at the health department they wanted me to get an ultrasound but I can't get in touch with the hospital on my work schedule. Please help, thank you for taking time to read this. I'm starting to get nervous.

Spindles on a staircase..?

given that i haven't seen the board , so im just guessing, but if its an old house you might find balustrade between the boards?? if the hand-rail is still present, i hav heard of this before........ but if you need to place balustrade and hand rail, its fairly easy i principle , you can buy the balustrade and hand rail ready turned and moulded and its a case of a hammer and precise chisel and fixings, although a tradesman would be a safer option, hope this helps

How many mangos can a pre-diabetic eat per day?

Assuming they have a history of high blood sugar, but no insulin? Do the nutritional benefits outweigh the risks? Thanks!

Would somebody please rate my essay Do the benefits of technology outweigh the risks?

On a scale of 1-10 currently 4. Clearly that isn't the whole of the essay (unless it is an answer to a test question) and as an opening paragraph it does not state what the essay is about. First sentence seems like a run on sentence and should be shortened. It is unclear to me which subject the essay will be about. Is it the adaptation of humans to our technology? Our adapting to the changing state of our technology? Or is it about our choosing convenience over responsibility and environmental stewardship?

What new phone should I buy?

I'm stuck on what I should get due to major drawbacks in my favorite options. Now I just want to know what drawbacks are far outweighed by the advantages offered.

This question is for the guys only?

Would you date a girl that has a big nose? If she had other nice facial features like eyes, smile and a nice body would those others things outweigh the fact she has a big nose or would you not even consider it?

Should I quit my 2nd job(babysitting 1 day a week)?

You should keep it not just because its nice but because of the money and if overall everythings that miserable you need to cut hours somewhere else

Correct my SAT practice essay?

You are trying to write in the highest level you can which is commendable. However, beware of writing above your historical, grammar and punctuation level. Historical problem: The actual decision to drop the bomb was made because we thought that there would be fewer casualties on both sides than there would be by invading Japan not because of the attack on Pearl Harbor. Grammar: First sentence has an incorrect use of the word approve. There are also spelling errors which may be from typing too fast. Punctuation problems. In some cases, you have too many commas; a period in the wrong place or need semi colons.

Have you ever been in a pickle ?

Yeah the weekend just gone actually, it felt terrible. I've not felt so bad for a long time. But all we can do is learn from our mistakes.

Why am I so jealous and what can I do to fix things?�?

I understand how you feel cause i was sort of like this in high school. I think everyone is capable of change it all just depends on how much effort they put into it, and the means they use to achieve it. Not everyone is the same, so i think you just have to find your own way to make that change. You seem to be very educated, reasonable, and able to recognize the problem at hand, so overcoming what seems to be insecurity should be obtainable to you. Anyways what helped for me is knowing what kind of person I'm with. I don't get involved with just anyone i take my time getting to know them so that i won't face this problem, Once trust is achieved then i will feel safe in having a relationship with such person. I'm sure you know there can be no relationship without trust. you might need to think and examine your reasons for anxiety. Obviously not everyone can let everyone else just fade into the background, and if you can't live with someone who can't do the same, then i might suggest looking for someone who can. I know it's not something you want to hear but if you truly trust him then there should be no reason for you to feel that way. I'm sure he isn't going to leave you for some random half naked chick in a commercial or another pretty face at a restaurant. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't the one you were looking for, but i believe you're afraid he'll leave you for these women; and one can speculate that it would be due a lack of trust in him... but you seem like a very logical person :) so maybe if you just step back and really examine the problem, then you will find your solution.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Is there anyone who plays for the objective in mw2?

I do because you get more points and helps out your whole team. If all you going to do is to play for kills, play team death match.

A couple of questions about pickled watermelon?

I was watching the show "chopped" and on it one of the chefs made pickled watermelon. It made me curious so I asked a friend about it and she said that they usually only use the rinds of the melon and you can make it really easily with leftover dill pickle juice. Is this correct? I'd like to try and make it. Also what would you serve it with? Thanks in advance.

Can you explain God to me?

Easy, wish fulfilment. If death is too difficult to accept, just invent something that claims to be able to transcend it and then see how good you feel. Surely feeling good is worth a fundamental disconnect with reality.

Is a septoplasty worth it?

I met with my ENT recently, and he found that I had a moderately deviated septum. He said it wasn't mandatory for good health to get a septoplasty, but that it was definitely on the table for me, and offerred as a ballpark figure my breathing through my nose could improve by 50-60 percent. Would the benefits of this surgery outweigh the risks in this case?

What can I make for dinner I have the following ingredients?

Looking at the length of that list it seems like you have enough ingredients to make anything you want.

Most Important Poll in Your Life.....Help!?

How can I smuggle Feces in a Pickle Jar throught the airport. I know they aren't alowed on planes because sanitory conditions, but I need something to snack on. B.T.W its my own Feces so I don't get salamanali I covered them in spaghetti sauce. Can I convince the plane its home made meatballs (they were 3 days ago) and I don't want the person next to me asking any questions. Like "watcha eating on, playboy. It stanks. Get it away from me."(this has happened in the past. Sergeant Gutter and his Doo-Doo Bandints are gaurding the bathrooms, so I can't make a snack on the plane. This is serious give me real answers. Or ill Chris Brown you with my dirty,dirty,filthy,stank fingers.

Why was this horse being sooooooooooooooooo mean and stupid? I did everything right!?

Ok so there is this like 25 year old horse at my barn I board my horse at. I rode him today because his owner was away. I used my tack because his tack was brown and brown doesn't look good with me so I used my black saddle. I was jumping him around 4 feet because that's wat me and my horse do after a while he got tired so i did a hack on him and went through a creek to cool off then i went to the big open pasture and started to gallop him he looked tired but i kept him going then he suddenly bucked me off! Then he lay ed down and took a nap! Why did he do this? My horse can does this easy, I gave him breaks! Why was he SO mean, im hurting now!

Why are Conservatives not troubled by Ayn Rand's philosophy of Objectivism?

They pick and choose what they like and ignore the rest. Their followers are morally opposed for reading anything for themselves and coming to their own conclusions, so it works out perfectly for them.

Would telling my parents that I'm Bi stop them from sending me to boarding school?

I'm 13.They are sending me to boarding school because my mom caught me having a threesome with two boys.

Do the benefits of a good high school education outweigh my happiness?

I think you will defiantly benefit in the long run. I'm not in exactly the same position as you but i can relate because i have had similar issues. The best advise i received was a trusted one, the likely hood of you getting a friend for life at school now isn't likely. Wait for when you go to university or college maybe and then you're going to be able to meet people who you can relate to as you're choosing the same paths ... on the grades thing try your hardest, its up to you to get as far as you can no matter how f******* frustrating people around you are. People can be bitchy and really problematic around you, they probably have their reasons. If your not friends with them now, that's okay ... because you've got the rest of your life to live - hope this helps

What do you think of the internet?

Well it makes researching things a lot easier. I think the spread of info is so much quicker now, but you have to remember that bad info is included. I think that the internet (along with 24 hour cartoon/kids programming and video games) has led to a severe decrease in the amount of imagination a lot of kids have. I tell my kids to go outside and play and they are many times clueless as to what one would do outside. My fault I guess for letting them do so many electronic things. I feel sort of torn on the internet. On one hand, it is extremely useful, but there are so many bad things about it ( porn, exploitation, etc) that I guess it really is a toss up. But, saying that, I would have a really hard time adapting to no internet after having it and its conveniences for so long now. Good luck on your project :)

My face is swelled up from ?

ok heres my pickle.... my throat hurts on thursday 2 days later i was deep into having strep .. anyway i started taking cefadroxil for 5 days worked beautifuly i stopped taking em early 2 days later my throat hurts again and is enflammed so i take cefadroxil for 3 days strait on the third day i wake up my face is swollen my neck has slight rash .... but im kinda thinking that since the day before i was working with hay all day which i was covered in and was going in my eyes is what did it cuz the night before i woke to see my face i was very itchy on the neck ..... its the first time me having real contact with hay ....

Do I deserve to be mad at my girlfriend?

It's okay to be upset that she's gone because you'd miss her, but you have no right to actually be angry. This is a wonderful opportunity for her and she's trying to at least make a difference in the world. It's not all about you.

Does the good in him outweigh the bad? Opinions?

U r aware that he is not perfect and he is aware that u disapprove of some of the things he does. U r able to stand your ground and not be bullied. U r able to talk and express feelings with one another. It sounds like a very good relationship.

Is my view on voting an ignorant one?

I think your viewpoint is not so much ignorant as unappreciative. Thousands of Americans have shed blood to give you the right to vote. If you don't vote, you shouldn't complain about who we wind up with because you took no part in the selection process.

Im in quite a pickle please help!?

Ok so lately my mom and grandma have been supper annoying! Basically all they do is watch Oprah all day and make me do all there chores! like rubbing there feet, cooking them meals, doing there laundry, and picking up my grandmas dogs poop! also my grandma likes to watch inappropriate shows so she makes me go to bed at 9! and im 20 years old! so as a way to get back at them i decided to throw the tv down the stairs while they were eating breakfast(its the only time of day there not watching tv) Now we have no tvs and because it was brand new and very expensive we wont be getting a new one for a while. But instead of laughing about my prank they are all mad for no reason! Now they want me get a job to pay for a new tv,like ive got nothing better to do. How do i get out of this!???? Any advice?Like i said im in quite a pickle

How is the measles vaccine even justified?

Measles is not mild in many people and just made one infant seriously ill and killed another in my area. The reason the rates are low is due to people being diligent in getting vaccines. As more people choose not to (oh, this disease is under control) we are seeing a resurgence in some life threatening conditions that had almost been eradicated. When we immunize, we not only protect ourselves but those with vulnerable health conditions that are susceptible to infections (cancer patients, etc.). When I choose to immunize, I am not only protecting my health, my babies health but your health as well!!

What can I do to get my ex out of my head?

u always have to remember why u finish with u and whats went wrong with ur past relationship with him,sometimes we forget about it and dream being where we was before but the truth is that what we had was not good and we only was hurt by being so confuse and lost,don't ever forget that what u did was the best what u could so keep reminding ur self that was the best option and its time to make ur life and even maybe time to find some1 new a fresh start u must feel a bit lonely so u do think about ur life but life is good u free and happy u just don't know that yet,enjoy ur life and don't waste ur time on a loser,all the best

How to make a sign light up for a concert?

I'm going to a concert in a few weeks and my friends and I really want to make a sign that will light up. We've seen it done before. Either on a board or using pipes. Obviously it can't be huge or super heavy because we have to carry it there. We just need a idea of how to make it, and keep it powered throughout the concert.

Starting Accutane soon...?

i hear good and bad things about this drug.... hope it works for you but i dont know how to get it.... i have seen specials on tv about it and also laser which is expensive

Should my baby be this big?

Hi I have a baby girl she was born April 1, 2011, weighing 6.14. She's 2months now. She's weighing at least 14 pounds or more. Is this normal? I have a friend and her daughter is 6 weeks older than mine, and my daughter outweighs her. Plus I have another friend that had a son two days after me, and he only weighs 11 pounds.

Friday, July 15, 2011

How to deal with a friend who thinks her kids are genetically superior?

Okay, all of us Moms think our kids are amazing and prodigies and beautiful and angel (well, they are, right?) My kids are 33 months and 11 months, and I'm 22 so it's hard for me to find friends being 10 hours away from my roots. So I've been lucky enough to find a couple girls my age with kids (you know, people who won't judge me based on my age is really all I look for at this point). One of the girls though.. She's 19, has a 14 month old and a 2 month old. I've gotten past her mooching and immaturity, frankly, I kind of feel bad for the girl. But when she gets to talking about her kids it just pushes my buttons. I have been STRUGGLING for months to help my son on the potty (which he finally got this weekend, woohoo!), and she is like "What? Even [Baby#1] is going on the potty." I just want to scream and be like "no you're just-turned-one-year-old-son is NOT going on the potty!" Oh and did I mention there is ALWAYS something wrong with her or the kids. I know being a new mother is scary, but to say "My son has cancer!" (not so drastic) when you feel a lump (and later found out that everybody has that bump under their nipple) and before even going to the doctor... it's aggravating! I am in a pickle because I'm a stay-at-home mom and don't have many opportunities to meet people but.. is it even worth it? It really gets on my nerves! I guess I just really need to vent to someone other than my husband lol.

I'm scared!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

This ten year old kid was just saying the most innapropriate things to me like, suck my pickle. And I don't know how to get him to stop!! Help!

Would some please rate my introductionDo the benefits of technology outweigh the risks?

Bear this in mind, once you invent something, you have it for ever more. The wheel started it all off. You can't de-invent, you just go with the flow and forget the risks!

Should I take this job? (much, much more info inside, please click me!)?

i personally wouldnt take it. there are better jobs out there you could get. what about working in a restaurant?

When your feeling down what do you personally do to overcome it?

listen to my favorite music at the time. or just think that it could be worse. a lot worse. that way tends to be bittersweet so I'd go with the music lol or just anything that you like as in tv or something. or talk to someone, that helps some people... hope I helped =)

In a tight situation with my undergraduate degree?

You graduated with a 50%. Do you really think that one summer course is going to make a difference in getting into a Master's program? Just take your degree and get a job. After your first job, your GPA will not make a difference, just the fact that you have a degree.

My boyfriend may begin to be obsessed with is cat...?

So about 2 days ago, I made the spontaneous decision to get my guy a kitten. He's never had a pet in his life, and I absolutely believe that this kitten could help him get over everything that he's been dealing with...we suffer exponentially from a long-distance relationship lol (it sucks) and he gets lonely, more so than I do. And I just felt that he needed a pet. Now a kitten is almost virtually the cutest thing on the planet, so it's understandable that he'll get attatched. But I FEEL like we're on the road to him being completely OBSESSED. Every conversation is about...well he brings it up EVERY conversation about him. Maybe it's just because he's new...and excited about his new kitten. But STILL...ugh. I am not competing with a freaking kitten. So I'm in somewhat of a pickle, he loves it, hell I kinda love it too...but DAMN. I should have got him a turtle.

Has anyone ever driven from Toronto to Pickel Lake?

I am planning a trip to Pickle Lake Ontario "The End Of The Road" which is as far north as you can drive on a road. I am wondering if anyone else has had any experiences with this journey and if they may have any tips or stories?

Does anybody have a good boarding school name? the school is in france,?

i am trying to write a paper for school, so i need a good name. it is in france, so it cant have american names like, washington academy,lincoln prep,etc. something creative too! i don't mind if it sounds creepy, either.

Who is pickier than me?

I AM!!!! Lol. I only eat white bread cant be more then 5 days old. Only THIN sliced turkey. Macoronie. Spigettie no meat balls. Only serloin steak. The only fruits are apples purple grapes baby oranges not the big ones and vegitables. Corn patatoes. corn dogs but with the cornbread part picked off completely. Fries but only all natural. And only american white cheese. And thats what I live on. :)

On my ipod touch i was on cydia and i rebooted spring board and the reboot usally takes 5 secs now its taking?

on my ipod touch i was on cydia and i rebooted spring board and the reboot usally takes 5 secs now its taking alot of time what should i do

Can anyone help me with my x58 sabertooth board and PCI-e SSD as a boot device?

So I'm building my first machine in a long while. Among the issues I've run into (most of which I think I can hash through) is that I cannot get windows to recognize my OCZ PCI-e SSD as a potential boot device. I'm running this on the Asus x58 sabertooth board, and the raid controller on the board sees the drive, but the windows installer does not recognize it as a drive for installation. Any recommendations?

With government spending out of control, was this an important news story?

How dare you bring up this distraction when everyone knows you want to kill grandma and Feinstein is just trying to stop you, you granny killer you.

What kind of fish food is best for my goldfish?

Sinking pellets are by far better for goldfish. They also aren't as messy as flake. Swim bladder disease is usually caused from a goldfish swallowing air while trying to eat floating foods. You can also feed them fresh orange slices, peas, romaine lettuce, and zucchini...as far as fresh foods go. Bloodworms, brine shrimp, mysis shrimp, and blackworms are also good to provide.

Is there any coupons for santa cruz beach board walk?

Me and a couple of friends are going to santa cruz beach board walk august 20th. I'm looking for coupons,savings and discounts on food and ride etc I

Im selling my 2005 for escape how should i price it?

it has 100,000 freeway miles a roof rack and running boards and a tow package. the suv is clean inside and out and in very good shape its an xlt sport utility

At what point do the benefits of taking Adderall during pregnancy outweigh the risks?

I was taking 15mg of Adderall twice daily for 4-5 months until I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago (about 7 weeks , now). Since I stopped taking my ADHD meds, I have been very irritable, having bouts of depression and mood swings, trouble sleeping/sleeping too long, distant from loved ones, fatigued, etc. I was also taking .3 Clonidine low blood pressure med to counteract Adderall at night, and help me relax for sleep, as well as Restoril 30 mg at bedtime for sleep. I stopped everything cold turkey, and I know the Restoril is absolutely OFF the list while being pregnant, and my Psychiatrist and I decided together to see how well I would do without my other meds, but I don't feel like I'm doing so well. They are considered a Class "C" for pregnant women, which could be potentially harmful to the fetus...unless the benefits outweigh the risks. I don't want to cause any harm to my baby, but I'm really not handling things well. I have many stress factors in my life right now, and I know that could be dangerous, as well. When I was pregnant with my daughter 4 years ago, I was not on any meds and I did fine, but then my Dad committed suicide on my 8th month of pregnancy with her and I lost both Grandparents 4 months later. I no longer have a mother and sister....they want my daughter, not me. I have a loving fiance, his two awesome teenage kids and my beautiful daughter. I have much to be grateful for, but a lot that is causing me stress. I haven't felt like I was able to concentrate for 30 years of my life until the Adderral. I'm wondering if it is best I just take a smaller dosage once a day. I know I need to talk to my doctor, but I just wanted to hear from anyone here who's experienced anything similar being pregnant. Thank you.

I ate too much help!!! :(?

if you are toying with people, it is not funny. If you aren't then you need to go see a doctor. This is not normal. You are probably suffering health problems (heart problems, osteoporosis,etc) if you eat this little as your regular diet.

My parents won't let me drive long distances?

I'm 18, I've been driving for two years, never had any issues/tickets/etc. Anyway, I have my UPitt orientation next month, and I live in Philly. I want to do the drive alone, and stay the night on campus for $30, but my parents won't let me do the drive alone. It's a straight 300 mile trip on one highway. Now since my parents won't let me do it alone, that means that we will have to book two hotel nights, which will cost $260. If I drive alone, its $30, with them its $260, but parent's overprotectiveness outweighs logic unfortunately. What should I do?

Are my Legs Fat,Skinny,Muscular?

well ik what you are talking about,if they dont jiggle,than is muscle that made your legs thick, but it also depends in which point of view you are looking at them, it would be best to take a picture.

Locker decor?!? (zebra print)?

Okay so I'm going into 7th grade. I finally decided I want to do my locker zebra this year. (it's a top locker) but all I have is zebra wallpaper and a black dry erase board. Help?!?!

Girls: do you think my good aspects outweigh my bad ones...?

Sweet, its about your personality and what types of girls fit you, not every girl will say yeah, for sure your good outweighs you bad, there may only be a few, but the ones who say that it does.. mean it and will be the ones suited for you. No good asking us sweet, we dont know you and i think u need to let people get 2 know u :) xx

I cant believe he could do this.. Should I leave?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I just don't understand y he treats me so bad. I literally will do anything in this world for him and in return he treats me like crap. He knows i will give him the shirt off my back in a minute. ANYTHING sexual, I do. Anything he wants to eat, I cook. And he can barely say thank you. Every time i tell him i feel unappreciated he says well find someone else but the second he thinks im talking to another dude he goes crazy with anger. HE says my bad outweighs my good because im not as clean as him but everything else I try my best to make him happy. I love him so much but im just honestly drained and i don't know how much more i can take i don't wanna give up on him but he never wants to talk and nothing changes, I just cant understand for the life of me why he cant realize he has something good, but every time i try to leave for good he dont want me 2. I dont get it. He wasnt always like this. idk what 2 do

Has anyone ever been an ITT recruiter?

Has anyone ever been an ITT recruiter? I'm currently looking into employment with them as a recruiter. Is it a good job for the month, or does the stress outweigh the money? What are the pros and cons of the job?

Why is there an explosion of rare traits in internet forums?

Whenever a discussion of a rare ability or personality trait arises in message boards, suddenly 80% of the users have it. The ability to hear dog whistles, for example. Or having learned to read before the age of two or three.

Character name for my novel?

I actually like Tobias. By the way, it sounds like your novel would be pretty intresting! Good luck writing it~

Do you think I have a right to be mad at my doctor and my mom?

Without running any tests or anything my doctor is like she has PMMD. My mom kept telling the doctor I was mean all the time not just around my period and that I was violent to her. This is not true because my dad is the one who is mean and he has thrown me across the car, across the room, tried to hit me and punched a hole in the door. I yell but only to stand my ground and keep myself safe. Anyway, without even telling me ANY of the side effects, they put me on Prozac and Birth Control without even asking me. My mom made me take it and I felt so awful every day. I was a zombie I had no emotions or feelings. Within about 2 months I put on 10 pounds which is extremely unhealthy considering I was only 15 and my mom didn't even care. I am 16 now I am about 20 pounds heavier and I exercise all day even though it is extremely hard for me to breathe and I feel like I'm having a heart attack every time I walk. I asked my mom why did you put me on all that crap without even telling me the side effects and she said "I think the benefits outweighed the risks". Don't you think it was horrible of her? I mean I have to spend my summer trying to somehow manage to get this weight off instead of enjoying my summer and also I have some kind of breathing problem now all because of that and she doesn't even care. She treats me like she is perfect and I am a crazy psycho. If you were me would you be mad and why? And don't say she is your mother she can do whatever she wants. She put my health in danger and made me extremely insecure from this huge weight gain and there is nothing I can do I have the metabolism of a chair now. Would you be mad

I think i'm co-dependent. how do i sever the ties with my alcoholic husband.?

Alanon. (period) look it up online. There are chat rooms, and lots of information. No one can answer what is right for you, but you. Hope you find the answers that work for you!

Am I am bad person for hurting him again?

He was so amazing. We were in love. He had everything undercontrol in both our lives. He knew what I should wear and say and made sure I listened. When I didn't listen he would yell and slapped a few times but the good outweighed the bad. He said something offending and i dumped him in a moment of anger. Then he did something stupid (involving matches and my front door, there was minimal damage). He went to a psych ward for a week and months later we got back together. Then my parents broke us up. I know I was stupid go get back with him :( but was it wrong to hurt him like this??? Help me

Dwarf Puffer or Anything else?

i don't think you should get the fluval edge. it's a rip off and it's so small. i don't think a 6 gal is big enough. they're very territorial and you won't be able to keep any fish with that puffer in a 6 gal. you should get like a 10 gal and give it a lot of hiding spots. i think with that, you could prolly fit around 2-3 dwarf puffers. nothing else though.

How long does sliced cucumbers tiurn into pickles?

Well, first you have to place them into pickling juice... vinegar, dill, rosemary, and water (for dill pickles). After that, it takes at least two weeks for them to become pickled. They get better as they age.

Is there a d&d program?

is there a site or program that has everything you need to play classic d&d without the physical board and die?

Coconut Feet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… :(?

My pet pig, name Sherolub once told me that I had coconut feet. It hurt my feelings. I was thinking about feeding Sherolub pickles for the rest of his life, and making him drink strawberry syrup, but it seems so harsh! What should I do. :(

Help me understand the value of a stock which pays no dividends?

The most commonly used method of valuing a company is by using discounted cash flow. The only trick to that is attempting to determine what the future cash flow will actually be. It is open to a great deal of subjectivity. Of course if it were easy we would all know what each stock was worth exactly.

Cleaning THC out of urine overnight?

I am a former medical marijuana patient. Drinking pickle juice, tea, vinegar, cranberry juice, taking supplements, special anything, does not work. Marijuana is dissolved in your adipose tissue. It will show positive for 3 months (six on blood). Your urine test may later show a weak reading - on question - they answer that by drawing blood.

What should ii write on this mini board?

so i have this really small board and i am going to paint it but what should i write on it???? i have no ideas so any from you guys will be helpful btw you can only fit 1-2 words on it

Should i stay with him or just move on (10 points)?

so my BF and i are both 16 and have been going out for 11 months. we met each other at a boarding school/ rehab for teens with eating disorders. i suffered from anorexia im was 5'1 and 70 pounds and he had a bing eater he was 5'11 and 462 pounds. we started out as great friends and we really connected with each other. he later asked me out and i could not help but say yes. he is incredibly funny, and such a sweetie, he is the kindest person i have ever met. he gives out the best hugs and i love when we cuddle on the couch. over the year we have supported each other alot to get healthier. i have gained some weight and he has lost some weight so we are getting better. the thing is we have one week to our school year ends and i live in Miami and he lives in Dallas (btw we did give each other a hard time on what went on in the NBA Finals). i love him with all my heart and i dont want to say good bye. should i just move on or should we try a long distance relationship.

MPs pensions- when are they going to agree that it must happen at the next General Election?

News item in 2010. MPs could lose �15,000 a year from their generous pension plans under reforms unveiled by a government review board yesterday. Retirement packages may be altered to mirror the current pension amount that workers in the private sector receive. The Senior Salaries Review Board said that the taxpayer contribution to MP pensions should be reduced to 10.5 per cent of their total salaries - half of the current figure. If plans are put into effect an MP elected this year would see their annual pension drop from �37,240 to �22,579.

What are the chances that i will actually find someone to have a relationship with on match.com?

if you want someone nice you gotta search theres not to many nice girls out there now a days but theres gotta be at least 1 on match just search around

Thursday, July 14, 2011

What are the actual benefits of marriage and how do they outweigh the risks?

If you love somebody and want to spend the rest of your life with them, why sign the piece of paper and accept all the legal baggage and potential for financial devastation rather than just living with them? I mean, an ex girlfriend can hurt you pretty bad, but she can't f*ck you up nearly as bad as a ex wife. Really, what's the difference between being married and living with a woman and raising a family with her WITHOUT the piece of paper?

Do the benefits of globalization outweigh the drawbacks?

Depends, can monopoly global capitalism be controlled? If not it'll continually be a drawback, an element of control instead of openness.

To Move or Divorce...Need Advice?

My husband wants to move closer to where he works. He has a family business that he started without discussing it with me a few years back.He knew the job would keep him away from our family and at the time stated we wouldn't be moving there (2-2 1/2 hr away). My husband now constantly hounds me about moving there. I personally feel like it's a bad decision b/c my husband's family attempts to have no relationship with myself or our son and usually ignore us when we come to visit and never call to say hello (They've called like 2-3 times in the 8 years we've been together- and no there has never been conflict that I'm aware.. they have been like this since day 1 of meeting them). They show obvious favoritism with the grandchildren (and thier own kids) such as buying extreme gifts ($500.00+) for some grandchildren at Christmas and coloring books and crayons for another (just an ex) when all the kids open presents today.. just rude if you ask me. They also talk about things that I would consider adult conversation - such as they have custody of my husband's sister's chidlren and the kids know every detail of how crappy their mother and father are which I think it is inappropriate to involve children in adult conversation. I think kids should be aloud to be kids and not know all the wrong in the world. I would prefer my child not to have to be around that all the time. Anytime i have attempted to say something about my husband's family he gets completely defensive and angry at me. My family has very close relationships with my son and husband and I. They are helpful to me when my husband's not home should I ever need anything. If we move my husband will still not be around any more due to when he works he works like 15-16hr days and we he's off he comes home.. so I still would not see him on days that he works. His family would not be able to ever help with anything such as if I got stuck at work and needed someone to pick up our child on short notice and quite frankly i don't know that I trust them to do so. My husband continues to force this conversation about moving and will not speak to me for hours-a day when I say I think it's a bad idea. I should also add that my husband decided a few months back that he wanted to go back to college and quit up there and moved home and found a good job that paid decent and would allow plenty of time for family and school. He was very happy or so it seemed except he didn't like living on less money than we were used to. His family called nonstop begging him to come back and basically saying that the business would fail without him and his parents and sister could risk losing their houses and cars if it failed (normally they are in no way respectful or appreciative of the work my husband does- which is to work his butt off to support the whole family). Well my husband went back despite my pleading not too. Now he continues to pressure me to move to a place around his family and I feel it will be the end of our marriage. He says he will go with or without us. I recently found out I was pregnant, which only buys time b/c I would have difficulty getting a job while pregnant and would lose maternity leave. Also my husband and I make the same amount of money and I currently have been blessed to get a job that has great hours for my family - my hours and pay are rare in my field and it seems dumb to give it up adn move to spend less time with my family. I'm torn on what to do. I feel my husband will leave me if I don't move adn I feel that our marriage is doomed if I do. I also feel my husband is a different person around his family and is very heavily influenced by them when he is with them.. like their opinion often outweighs mine in marital decisions. Any advice would be great. Thanks

Maingear Vybe Stock - Worth the buy?

That price of $2014, really is a bit steep. If you build it yourself with all of the top spec equivalents to the parts you have here, without a monitor it would cost you only $1629 (that's with parts worth $100's more than the ones here) on NewEgg without tax and shipping & handling. However if you do insist on buying this rig you will need to beef up that graphics card to maybe an AMD Radeon HD6970 2GB. And also you should have a lot more power on tap for a gaming computer than 520W even if SeaSonic is a great brand. So i'd get at least 600W, maybe 800 or 850 is you're planning to upgrade in the near future or if you are thinking about overclocking your system.

How do you decide to leave?

Sketch out parallel futures with him and without him. Your children, if my math is right, are now 16, 14, and 12. Even the 12 knows you are not happy and probably, if honest, they all would say that they would rather you be happy than having two parents in the house. They will pull together with you to run a house should you leave and take them, so don't let the children be a factor in your decision. Thinking of your two parallel futures, ask the old Ann Landers question - am I better off with him or without him? The answer will show you what you should do. Best of luck to you, teacher of the year. I wish he would prize your singular and impressive accomplishments more highly.

Are we picky when it comes to relationships? Or is it really preference?

I think there is preference, then there is being an idiot. There has to be *something* you find desirable in the other person. Preferably several somethings. But anyone who has a laundry list of features and expects to get them all... yeah, they're retarded.

Wouldn't the world be a much better place if we all stopped being so individualistic?

Why can't it be like back in the days where people were fighting together like brothers for noble causes and treated each other as brothers and made jokes and all, it had more validity and a good story behind it...Now it seems like it turned so cold, boring, stupid and empty. (being born -- go to school -- go to work -- die)... at least you had real trolls back then LOL jk (not the wanna-be intellectual trolls you have now) Although there were many diseases back in the day and all that bad stuff but that doesn't really matter for me, the pro's outweigh the con's in my opinion..Who agrees with me?

Can I still become a vet?

Never the most well behaved student.. Detentions, 2 suspensions each lasting 1 day when I was 14&15.. But clever, on the Eco committee and in the Gifted and Talented group for academic students. Is there any chance I could still become a vet if I turn over a new leaf and stay on the straight and narrow? Or does the bad outweigh the good?

So, religious people, do u seriously think religion has did more good than bad?

We are not to blame. Blame those with minds corrupted by evil and tweak and twist the bible, the Torah, the Qoran or whatever. Religion shud be peaceful and its those cursed men who makes a religion look bad. And by the way, the killings of the majority of Wars after 1900s has caused more deaths than religion itself. World War 1, 2, vietnam, korean blah blah. So don't even tell me how many lives were lost because of religion. Yes there were many, but compared to back then's and today's war, religious death is tiny compared to other things. So don't blame us.

Can you take ambien and neurontin together?

I was prescribed ambien for a sleep disorder and neurontin for nerve pain in my spine. I am just worried about these medications clashing. I would like to know if it is ok or not. I read the side effects for neurontin, and they are not too pleasant. My doctor thinks that the benefits outweigh the risks.

250cc vs 600cc first bike..?

You know it, I know it, you're going to get the R6. If you don't you'll regret it. Get some advanced training when you get it and you'll be safe and your insurance will be lower.

How to reinstall OS after replacing mother board?

Hi, I got my mother board replaced from Lenovo service centre. Now the Laptop is turning on and shows the options MENU to select any of the OS. "Earlier version or Win 7". But there is no reaction after selecting any of them .The service centre agent advised me to reinstall OS and check the Laptop. Now how do I reinstall or is there any other solution to dis and can I install XP first and recover my data which was earlier in the Win7 drive as I had dual OS from the beginning. I dont know about dual booting so I will I have to again create partition? or just simply install one by one both the OS. Please tell me in detailed steps the procedure to install. And I wont mind to get only Win7 installed coz I hardly ever used XP. Please Explain.

Are there any easy tricks to do on a skateboard?

I just started skateboarding over 3 weeks and I can skate straight and pop my board up to catch it to carry. I don't live near any ramps so hitting those are out of the question.

Why am i craving pickles? -_-?

maybe cuz thier salty? and your taste buds change every 7 years so maybe youl like them. or your just convincing your self that they taste good. absolutely nothing to be worried about

Should I tell him I like him?

since you guys receantly became friends you should wait a little longer and then tell him your true feelings. start talking to him more so he kind of gets the idea your into him then bam! tell him that you like him. and if you get rejected, big deal, there are many fishes in the sea =]

Penalty for distributing flyers without permission?

If I know "Mall X" does not permit the distribution of flyers on its premises, yet I decide to do so anyway to promote my business, what possible reprecautions are there for my disobedience? Could the benefits of the publicity outweigh the consequences?

I'm really worried, and I don't know what to do because I think things could work out?

My girlfriend broke up with me about 4 weeks ago, and we had been dating from the start of January, on and off, so for 3 months, then a 2 week break and then another 2 weeks. We did lots of things together and we both lost our virginity with each other too. We had been friends for ages and we kissed and then things progressed to us dating. Anyway, she suffers from depression, and it gradually started getting worse from about mid January when she started seeing doctors and being on medication. I stuck by her even though some days were unbelievably hard since she would push me away and I thought we were in love. Anyway, we split up and got back together, and then she broke up with me again, claiming that everything was too hard for her and she can't deal with relationships. The thing is, we stayed close, for a week it was like nothing had really changed but then over the past week or so we've fallen further and further apart, but I've still seen her pretty much daily because we go to the same school. So making her miss me hasn't really been an option, and even though we have made up, things are still tough, as we do still argue sometimes. She sometimes claims she still likes/loves me, and every now and then I see little glimmers of her still liking me and potentially maybe getting back with me, but this is outweighed by her showing she doesn't still like me. I won't be seeing her till Friday now, and then after that I'm on holiday for a week. In the past whenever we haven't been with each other for a long time, the next time we meet up everything is good because we've missed one another, and that's how she got back with me last time, we hadn't spoken in 5 days and she realised she wanted me back. So I was thinking of doing something with her a week on Friday. But then just over a week later she goes away on holiday for 2 and a half months. I'm so worried that she will get with a guy for the holiday and end up having sex with him and stuff like that. See my hope is that she will come back from her holiday feeling better because she will have her space and time to recover away from everyday life, and so when she comes back she will perhaps want to date again, she hints that could be something she will want to do. I know I just have to wait and see, but will she get over me in those months? We have always been close, so I don't know if she will. And what should I do? I still love her, but I just don't know what to do. Oh, and also, the week before she goes away, we organised to have sex everyday that week to make up for her being away, and this was arranged after we had broken up. Should I see how the Friday goes and then ask if it's still on? The problem is she has no sex drive so I don't know how I can persuade her. She says it is unlikely that she will end up hooking up with someone else, but I can just see it happening. What should I do to make her get back with me? Thanks.

How do I know when it's over?

I have been seeing this guy for 5 months and I find myself in a tough position. At times he makes me feel like I'm perfect and at other times he makes me feel worthless. I admit the good outweighs the bad but we have had one too many fights for a 5 month relationship... and when its bad it's BAD!!!... I'm out of work, put on about 10 pounds and feel like he is the only good thing left in my life (besides God). I've never been the type to allow any man to have that much control of my happiness, but this is my reality. Should I hold on to him to avoid slipping into a black hole of depression or should I leave him and pray for something better?

BJJ vs Point fighting Karate in a street brawl?

Yeah say a BJJ black belt goes up against a point fighting karate black belt "by point fighting I mean only strikes no grappling experience whatsoever..." who would win? I'm thinking the BJJ guy because if he can get the karate guy down then he's done... But the Karate guy if he's able to keep his distance and land blows it's a bit of a pickle...

Family love/Individual love?

You're right, of course. What you describe is unconditional love. It's the only way, even if we can't keep the person in our life, for whatever reason.

My butthole hurts and its really hard to poop?

I was in the shower and i put mutable pickles into my anus. i put shampoo on as lube. i think the vingar from the pickles may have caused some serious irratiation because my butthole has blood coming out of it and its very very painfull to poop, WHAT DO I DO

What are some good romance animes?

I'm looking for things like Itazura na Kiss or Toradora!. Comedy is okay, but I don't want the comedy to outweigh the romance. A good plot is key, too. And please no Yaoi or Ecchi, I'm just not into that. And also, if you could refrain from suggesting the things that everyone suggests (Kimi ni Todoke, Clannad, ect.) that would be great. I've already gotten those suggestions and I'm really not interested.

Will she ever go back with me? How can I get her too? And will she get over me?

My girlfriend broke up with me about 4 weeks ago, and we had been dating from the start of January, on and off, so for 3 months, then a 2 week break and then another 2 weeks. We did lots of things together and we both lost our virginity with each other too. We had been friends for ages and we kissed and then things progressed to us dating. Anyway, she suffers from depression, and it gradually started getting worse from about mid January when she started seeing doctors and being on medication. I stuck by her even though some days were unbelievably hard since she would push me away and I thought we were in love. Anyway, we split up and got back together, and then she broke up with me again, claiming that everything was too hard for her and she can't deal with relationships. The thing is, we stayed close, for a week it was like nothing had really changed but then over the past week or so we've fallen further and further apart, but I've still seen her pretty much daily because we go to the same school. So making her miss me hasn't really been an option, and even though we have made up, things are still tough, as we do still argue sometimes. She sometimes claims she still likes/loves me, and every now and then I see little glimmers of her still liking me and potentially maybe getting back with me, but this is outweighed by her showing she doesn't still like me. I won't be seeing her till Friday now, and then after that I'm on holiday for a week. In the past whenever we haven't been with each other for a long time, the next time we meet up everything is good because we've missed one another, and that's how she got back with me last time, we hadn't spoken in 5 days and she realised she wanted me back. So I was thinking of doing something with her a week on Friday. But then just over a week later she goes away on holiday for 2 and a half months. I'm so worried that she will get with a guy for the holiday and end up having sex with him and stuff like that. See my hope is that she will come back from her holiday feeling better because she will have her space and time to recover away from everyday life, and so when she comes back she will perhaps want to date again, she hints that could be something she will want to do. I know I just have to wait and see, but will she get over me in those months? We have always been close, so I don't know if she will. And what should I do? I still love her, but I just don't know what to do.

I need counseling, but...?

I'm scared to ask for it. I used to be very depressed to the point of cutting when I was 12-14. I got over it when I got help, but I made my mom sick with worry and I don't want my mom to be scared that I'm back to the point I was then, because I'm not. But I feel like I'm getting there, and I really need to talk to someone. I'm not really happy or sad, I'm just meh. I have thoughts of suicide but they're not serious. I have dreams for my future which I've already worked on accomplishing. But I still have strong urges to cut sometimes. I manage to ignore them but I want to get RID of them. I'm extremely lonely, even though I have friends, I can't talk to them about this kind of stuff. I'm a closeted lesbian and I feel like I'm betraying everyone I love and myself by not being honest with them about me, but I live in a rural (and homophobic) area where everyone knows everybody and I'm not brave enough to be honest. It's one of those situations where you can't decide what to do because either way you go, the cons outweigh the pros...any way I need and want help but I don't want to worry my mom by asking for it, can I go see a counselor without her? I'm 16, I can drive myself, probably even pay for it, but I don't want to cause any drama or worry my mom. I just want to get discreet help! Is it possible?

You pee out the salt from pickles if you drink water, right?

I just had some pickles and then drank lots of water. I'll end up peeing out the salt from the pickles due to the water, right?

How to deal with a friend who thinks her kids are genetically superior?

Okay, all of us Moms think our kids are amazing and prodigies and beautiful and angel (well, they are, right?) My kids are 33 months and 11 months, and I'm 22 so it's hard for me to find friends being 10 hours away from my roots. So I've been lucky enough to find a couple girls my age with kids (you know, people who won't judge me based on my age is really all I look for at this point). One of the girls though.. She's 19, has a 14 month old and a 2 month old. I've gotten past her mooching and immaturity, frankly, I kind of feel bad for the girl. But when she gets to talking about her kids it just pushes my buttons. I have been STRUGGLING for months to help my son on the potty (which he finally got this weekend, woohoo!), and she is like "What? Even [Baby#1] is going on the potty." I just want to scream and be like "no you're just-turned-one-year-old-son is NOT going on the potty!" Oh and did I mention there is ALWAYS something wrong with her or the kids. I know being a new mother is scary, but to say "My son has cancer!" (not so drastic) when you feel a lump (and later found out that everybody has that bump under their nipple) and before even going to the doctor... it's aggravating! I am in a pickle because I'm a stay-at-home mom and don't have many opportunities to meet people but.. is it even worth it? It really gets on my nerves! I guess I just really need to vent to someone other than my husband lol.

Should i go surfing for my birthday?

Okay, my favorite thing in the whole world is riding and my horses but most of my friends are scared of horses so i have to settle for my second fave thing, surfing. So for my birthday party do you think a barbeque on the beach is a good idea and i could rent boards for my friends? Yeah or no? and if no, do you have any other ideas?

Are there any cheap longboards with trucks and wheels, that simulate snowboarding?

I'm a big snowboarder and I can't wait until winter again to start boarding. I really want a longboard now that I know some of them simulate snowboards, but I have a small budget.

I hate society as a whole?

Society does sucks and the few people who are different and have alot to offer are shunned by the idiots.

Is there a yahoo chat site? how do i get new yahoo messenger friends?

I'm board and would like someone to talk to. Just as friends. Not wanting to go on dating sites or anything like that. I hate Facebook and MySpace. Just want to stick With yahoo messenger.

Evolution is wrong and God knows the truth?

Caleb, because you are a christian you are really an atheist as you do not believe in the actual one true God. The one true god is of course The Invisible Pink Unicorn! Google the Invisible Pink Unicorn and connect with your true lord!

I cant decide if I want an abortion or I want to keep my baby?

I'm only 16.I have big dreams. I know I shouldn't have been having sex , but I did. I was on birthcontrol,however my antibiotics for strep cancelled them out. My bf & family support me in whatever I choose. I have severe depression & I think I have bipolar. I have hurt myself many times before & I'm afraid I'll hurt the baby. I have to stay on my abilify because my doctor says the pros outweigh the risk. I'm scared if I have the abortion,I'll regret it. I'm also 11 weeks along. I need any advice please & thanks :)

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

What happened here, and how am I doing?

I think you are over thinking a bit. I would get together with her again and then ask her how she sees you. A confident man with a direct way is very sexy.

Do you class green tea as healthy?

I'm curious as to green tea's status as a bit of a "super food". I've read about its supposed health benefits but it also contains caffeine. We are constantly encouraged to take LESS caffeine, except when it comes to green tea it seems. Is it just that the health benefits outweigh the negatives of the caffeine, or am I missing something?

I had a dream that this cartoon character went into bed with me, what could it mean?

Okay so I had a dream that Drew Pickles, got into bed with me and started to touch me in ways, that don't need to be explained. I'm kind of creeped out right. Why do I have dreams like these?

Idea's for my fussy 2 year olds Lunchbox?

Bread sticks, pieces or cheese, cucumber cut into rectangles, omit the pickle from her sandwich or try a different type of sandwich everyday, ask her what she would like in her lunch box

*takes deep breath* Rowling fans don't enter! Opinions about Harry Potter?

I agree. Her writing begins very weak in the Sorcerer's Stone. As she progresses through the series, she gets better, but never achieves the level of writing quality that very prolific writers tend to get. This is understandable, though, as she has not had as much "practice" writing as many novelists as famous as she is.

Why are the English FA complaining about alledge FIFA corruption..?

know it exists and supporting it are two separate things. I'm sure friendly negotiations happen in the English FA but but it still must be publicly condemned.

Anyone own a Hoover F5914-900 SteamVac carpet shampooer? I have a question re assembly.?

Designed for pet owners and active households, this hot-water vacuum cleans carpets after they've been dry-vacuumed and scrubs bare floors. The 1,440-watt vacuum applies hot tap water and cleaning solution (a 16-ounce bottle is included) into carpet fibers or onto bare floors with five rotating brushes at two speeds, and then it vacuums up the dirty water. No faucet hookup is required. Both the clean-water and dirty-water tanks detach for filling and emptying, and the vacuum shuts off automatically when the dirty-water tank is full.

What is the name of this movie?

I don't remember a lot of it but: this little girl can move things with her mind. One day in her classroom, they put up these posters, and before the principal walked in, she made all the posters go up and like the chalk board go down. She also helped her teacher steal a Teddy bear from this mean lady. They look in through a window and the little girl makes the lights go off or something. Sound familiar?

Guys: Does a girl's voice matter when dating?

no not atall, guys will love you for who you are. You said it yourself personality will outweigh it by 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999… tons. I completley understand about having voice problems i strained mine when i was having an argument with my mate years ago its never been right since its pritty much ruined my life i regret that moment so much. I know where your coming from about the insecurities its frustrating and it really affects your life you end up missing out on things you want to do. But dating wise you will be fine.

What kind, and size wake board should i get?

i just turned 14 years old and I'm 5'4 and about 112 pounds. i have always used my cousins wake board but it is much larger than i need. with his board i could never really get much air... around a foot or two at most. I'm average at wake boarding, i cant do anything special but I'm not bad. what brand and size wake board should i get? I'd also like the the price to be not much more than $200 if possible

Do u think the advantages of economic development outweigh the disadvantages?

many country aim to improve living standard by economic development,but some important social values are lost as a result.what do u think?

If you were in this situation what would you do?

i would ignore him and block him ---- no good will come from this seriously ---- if he is like this now he will do the same to you if you go to be with him ---- he is cheating and the best way to handle this is just ignore him ---- best wishes

I made a request to transfer to Midwood high school (NYC) for 10th grade this fall..will i get in ?

The board of Ed said that an Enrollment Specialist has to look at my request.....will i get in ? my grades are : ENGLISH- 85 , SPANISH-70 , BRIGHT PROMISE-100 , ADVISORY-80 , ECONOMIC-92 , US HISTORY-80 , ALGEBRA-80 , PHYSICAL ED-90 , LIVING ENVIRONMENT-70 , and LAB-P* for PASS. Do you think Midwood and that Enrollment Specialist will make the transfer because the school i go to now is broken and low performing from how i see it.

Yet another random survey for teens?

yes, kinda , a little of both, cheese, computer, I AM FRIKEN UNBELIEVABLE, cranberry juice with pizza crust, blue mixed with a little green, yahoo answers, dont mess with the zohan ( didnt even watch it all the way through), a little but im not a fanatic,Yes ,PIE ,the twins,The hunger games, nope,Me,Dawn, three, swimming softball soccer, yep

What do you pay for your mini horse every month?

I want to get a mini now, because they will cost a little less money feed wise. But anyways, what do you pay a month for food, dewormer, etc. Also, what do you pay for farrier, vet, etc. and how much does it cost you? How often? REMEMBER these questions are for a mini horse only!!! And by the way I will not be boarding it!!!

Long layover at Heathrow Airport?

I'll be having almost 26 hours layover at Heathrow International Airport before I board my next flight. Will the airline provide me with a room for the day and night or I am on my own ?

Will my boyfriend ever commit?

I've been with my boyfriend for 5+ years now, and have known each other for 10. He is 31 and I just turned 26. I've been living on my own for 7 years now, moved out when I was 19. He still lives with his parents. He stays at my apartment nearly every night and maybe pays for some groceries here and there when he feels like it. He will not move out of the house with a friend, or anything else for that matter. I do not get along with his family very well. So sometimes that will spark arguments. We argue about normal issues most couples do I guess. I mainly get upset due to everything that surrounds him still living at home, not paying rent at his house nor mine. So it's a double edge sword because I ask him to move out, and he says he wont because we fight too much. I say the only reason we pretty much fight is because of the fact that he wont move out! He's sweet, funny, and caring yes but this situation is really outweighing all of his good qualities. His parents have a lot of $ and property... a part of me is wondering, is he staying there until something happens to them? He wants me to be this respectful girlfriend to him at all times yet he wont do anything for our relationship to help make it better. Like I said I don't get along with his family and I've put my hand out as a peace offering only to get told by the parents, she needs to send us a letter and we will CONSIDER talking to her. He hasn't helped by any means in making that situation better and he has the power to.... for some reason his parents worship him and do everything for him. Will he ever change?? Am I wasting my time?

Want a horse but...? HELP PLEASE?

I have a mini horse now and I board him at a family friend's so I don't really have to pay a set board. I want to get a horse as a companion, like a larger horse, such as an injured thoroughbred that I don't have to ride, and I want to visit it, but I don't live in a super-rural area and I don't have the money to board and pay vet bills constantly. What should I do? I saw a program online for $600 where you can ADOPT a horse but you don't get to own it... Help!

Boyfriend says if I dont change he wld leave me and be with someone else?

That's crazy. I often ask people in relationships with common relationship problems "what is it that you think attracted them to you in the first place?"... Most people either draw a blank or give a not so well thought out answer. I mean if the question can get you to seriously thinking about how you all fell in love or got together in the first place, you'll probably know what he likes best about you with him even having to tell you. Although it wouldn't hurt to hear it sometimes. Ya know. But um good luck with that.

Undervalued or am I just whining?

16 years of marriage, and I received a paper pickle birthday card from my husband (nothing else), now I'm very used to getting nothing from him, he's busy and forgets, I don't stand on ceremony and don't even care about valentines. But getting this card made me feel like SH** . I felt so undervalued, but considering the lack of gifts throughout the years I just might be whiny without justification.What do you think? BTW I gave this exact same card to my 15 year old nephew but he at least got a 20 dollar bill in it.

How to get rid of a tan ASAP!!!!!!!!!!?

k so i went through this phase where i wanted super tan skin and i took it over board. its a natural tan none of that fake stuff nd i need 2 know how 2 get rid of it ASAP!!!!

Anyone feel like they're on top of the world, then for no reason feel like the tables got turned?

It's really weird that just 2 days ago i was really happy setting goals for myself (practically unattainable goals) I had more energy than usual I was joking around laughing all day, and feeling very optimistic about my life. Now I feel like I hit a new low.. I feel so alone and like I can't get any lower. This always happens to me and I have the tendency to think self destructively. I think of different ways to kill myself and wonder if anyone would care. I never act on my thoughts though, as I don't have the right to take Anyone's life, including my own.. I try to sit down relax and think of all the good in my life but as soon as I do all the negativity outweighs it, I know I shouldn't complain because Others have it worse but I can't help feeling so worthless. Has anyone ever felt this way or know why such a drastic transition takes place?

Do Calories in Almonds Outweigh the Health Benefits of Almonds?

Although almonds and most nuts are calorie and fat dense, they are VERY good for you! The fat in nuts is the kind that lowers bad cholesterol and the calories are good nutritious calories. I would suggest eating at least a serving a day but no more. A serving is like 1/4 cup of most kinds of nuts. And replace them with something less healthy that adds up to about 150 calories. Keep on eating those nuts! lol

What should I draw on my babyshower sign?

I'm supposed to make signs that say "Baby shower this way" and I have to decorate it, I'm an ok artist, and we don't know what gender baby is. I'm making on half of those big poster-board paper you get from the dollar store. Any ideas??

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

The top of my throat I have a white spot, what does it mean?

It's strep throat I believe and usually it last for about a week but I'm not 100 percent sure so go see a doctor

Could I get into University of Chicago?

You could get in, but there's a lot of people just as qualified as you. You seem like a good candidate you have the scores for it. I would apply if I were you. Its not for sure but you have a good chance at it. Your Sat scores are alright it would have been better if you got a 2000 or higher but thats fine. I would send your act and sat in if you apply, because their both pretty good. Normally look at your unweighted gpa, they won't care about your weighted most of the time.

Do you think that people with self harm scars owe it to others to cover them?

i have lots of self harm scars. Most of them were made where people cant see them anyways unless I was naked. I dont cover the ones up on my arms because to be honest, I really dont care.

Can someone be both an ectomorph and a mesomorph?

becuase I think I am an ectomorph, because I am fairly thin, and have a gap between my muscle and my inner elbow, but I have quite a bit of endurance when working out. Also, I have a friend who outweighs me by about 100 pounds, but I can beat him in arm wrestling with ease. Also I have fairly large muscles. but I meet most of the descriptions of an ectomorph.

My son had a seizure so he?

went to play with blocks but I told banana no, then the lemons started dancing to Man in the Mirror, so..does that mean the moon will pee out pickles for the rest of the snakes eye?

Even if the oil doesn't run out completely it will go the way of coal in the U.K and Sambre-Meuse Valley?

T.his is why obama is trying to end coal mining and use in this country. That way, once again, someday we will have to be dependant on foreign countries. Can't you see that he is trying to destroy this country from the inside out. He's a muslam

Nickname suggestions for the name Linus/Linnus?

I am looking for some nickname ideas for the boy name Linus/Linnus. Yes, it is the name of the character off of "Charlie Brown" if you are confused on the pronunciation. I've seen the nicknames "Lenny" and "Lonny", but those two don't really tickle my pickle. Thanks in advance for your suggestions!

Are we picky when it comes to relationships? Or is it really preference?

Loving someone, or liking them for that matter, is something that can not be determined by one person, both of the people need to have that feeling. You are right in saying that no one is perfect because no one is but the key to loving or liking someone is knowing that. The people that look at the positives don't know themselves well enough to even be in a relationship, like I said before it takes two to be in love. If a person only looks at the positives and over looks the negatives that ALL people have, then they will be doomed in that relationship, which probably explains why 50% of first marriages fail. To know true love with someone a person must know who they are and until then they will not be able to find a relationship that is worth while to them.

I was wondering if anyone can tell me what would go well with a coral colored one shoulder top...?

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I'm in a pickle, need some advice/help?

Today makes me 5 days late for my period (that usually always comes on time), I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning which turned up negative. I also had a really short, one day period last month, had urine and blood tested for pregnancy, both negative. I then had cramps for a whole week or more after the one day period. This month, nothing, not even spotting. I'm starting to have a lot of pain in my mid-lower, back, my boobs don't really feel any different they what they normally feel around AF. I've noticed my hair is starting to fall out, I would describe it more like shedding. I am sexually active and my boyfriend uses the withdraw method so I know there is a chance that I could be pregnant any month. I am really confused as to what is happening in my body. I know they say that stress can do that to you, but I don't think I'm really any more stressed out than normal. I've been getting pretty emotional lately, so every morning, I jump out of bed and go to the bathroom to see if I've started. What should I do? I don't have insurance, at the health department they wanted me to get an ultrasound but I can't get in touch with the hospital on my work schedule. Please help, thank you for taking time to read this. I'm starting to get nervous.

Does gold gym's dance workout game need a wii balance board to work?

You look so cute, remind me of this girl I know. Delicious. I'm not sure if u need a board ,Nintendo sucks.you should get a PS3.

Gender Studies...I desperately need your help... PLEASE!?

Will you open this big ole jar of pickles for me, this potato chip bag...and kill the big black hairy spider that's taken up residence in my mail box...?

Is the digital canning industry vibrant?

I've been hearing a lot about the digital canning industry lately in the news. Apparently there are high profits! Is this a good venture for an amateur digital canner? I have been digitally canning pickles and jam for several years with my two brothers Harold and Mark Willum. We have some start up money we won in the US competitive bridge (card game) circuit and are ready to put our time into a trade.

I am completely confused now? Please answer honestly...?

I would be terrified. You only talk about your Dad, and if you also live with your Mom, I would tell her. Dad's always get more protective and he would probably call the police. If you live with your Mom or can talk to her, I would. And he sounded like he was going to sexually assault you so I would never stay home alone. As little as possible. It would be a good idea to call the police, but you dont have proof. If he ever comes near you again, open the microphone on your phone if you have one and take a recording of what is said. I hope everything works out okay. Stay safe, and the pepper spray is a good idea.

Stinky pickles - what the hell is that spice?

One of my favourite restaurants changed their pickles in the last few months. I like pickles - kosher, garlic, bread/butter, spicy, etc. But these pickles are...awful. Shape/colourwise, they are sliced lengthwise, translucent, light green, not crispy. But there's a spice in there that is just...nasty. Like sweat and bile mixed together. They are horribly pungent. The smell lingers in your nose. I picked it off my burger a couple of times, and the smell/taste lingers on the burger, and also on my fingers (even after multiple washings). I had thought maybe it was a bad batch, but they are still serving them, and I honestly think they are supposed to be that way. I now tell them "NO pickle", but I am just dying to know what the heck kind of pickles these are, and what that spice/flavour is. Does anyone have an idea? Thanks!

Anyone know of any 0 calorie foods?

And can you eat as much of it as you want and not gain weight? I found these pickles that were 0 but I was wondering if there was more.

Do i really need a wide snowboard if i wear size 12 boots in mens?

i found a board i really like but i dont think it comes in wide except for a couple hundred dollars extra so i was wondering if i could get away with a regular width board? i am mostly an all around rider i like park, jumps and rails and all that but every now and then i like to just go for speed or cruise. if it helps im about 5'5" and weigh i think like 130

Does anyone know of a board game that came in book form?

It was bug themed. I played it as a child. It had a rubber lady bug on the bottom right corner and I think it came with game pieces. It was kind of like chutes and ladders, but every page had a different background.

Muslims, if being good gets you to heaven doesn't that mean that everyone goes to heaven?

Maiwand Amiry: Don't you know that your religion actually faces that problem which is any one goes to paradise even if he slaughtered 10 million people in the name of islam? Another problem with your religion is that even if the believer has murdered millions of people and if he dies while he is killing the unbelievers he gets paradise.

What three colors should I paint my nails ?

Im going to paint my nails becuase im board and its hard choosing three colors so what 3 colors should i paint them ? -Callie

WHAT SIZE AND TYPE OF WAKE-BOARD SHOULD I GET?

i went wake-boarding like 3 times with my friends wake-board. but now i want my own. I'm 6 foot 140 pounds and my shoe size is 10.5. I'm not looking for a board that is for tricks but i just want one that i can just ride easily and go outside the wake and maybe do some jumps after a while. i have no clue what size board or bindings to get so please help!! :)

How to open a pickle jar the easy way?

k so, i LOVE pickles ! and i could never figure out how 2 open the jar by myself. so one day i was being stupid and i went outside of my house and in my back yard and went by a piece of cement and i tipped the jar upside down, and hit it against the cement, as soon as i did that the lip popped open (: and ive been opening pickle jars like that since. but dont hit it 2 hard, or so soft. Enjoy <3

How many calories would you say this totals up to?

Breakfast: a pear. Lunch: plain pickle and tamato sandwich on brown bread. Dinner: plain salad with bbq sauce. And a piece of bread.

I'm gay and I keep leading girls on?

I guess it isn't apparent that I'm gay, because 75% of the time girls I talk to end up liking me... A lot... and I don't reciprocate... and I end up feeling like a dick about it. I don't really want to be openly/outwardly gay. I wouldn't say I'm "closeted" either, because those who I feel should know, do know. I wouldn't want people to assume I'm gay for a multitude of reasons... Mainly, I'm in High School in a not-so-great area, and because I kind of advocate when I hear other kids bad mouthing gays. So, letting everyone know is an option, but the cons greatly outweigh the pros. Suggestions? kthx

Im in a bit of a pickle help!:O?

So yesterday i went to the hospital to see my sick grandma who's deathly ill. As i was leaving i tripped on a cord hooked to one of her machines and accidentally unplugged a few things. Everyone all ways calls me a clutz so i didn't wanna tell anyone about what i had just done. today we got a call that my grandma is no longer with us and they don't know how she died so suddenly! im scared i killed my grandma!:O!! theres no way im telling anyone because well i don't wanna be a killer! is it possible i killed my grandma?also should i try and blame my mom by telling her i think she unplugged a cord by accident? or make others feel guilty for not visiting her enough idk there just ideas?

CLEANING THC OUT OF URINE OVERNIGHT?

sorry you lost already they do it by the hair mostly now because you can never get rid of it in your hair glands wouldn't want you trying too help me get over an injury

How can I cope with moving from a place that I LOVE?

I've spent eight years of my life in a house that we are moving out of. I'm twelve years old and have spent most of my life there. I have great memories of holidays and happiness. I cry at night hoping that a miracle will appear and we don't have to move out. T.T There have been bad memories, but the good outweigh the bad. How can I cope with this?!

Anybody ever had a wickle?

I'm wanting to make my own wickles or something like them. They're "wicked pickles" which are baby dill sized spicy pickles. I've got some fresh cucumbers from the farmers market but how do I turn them into spicy pickles and how long does it take?

New beauty school graduate advice?

Hi, I've just graduated beauty school & am waiting to take my boards exam. I've heard that chain salons are really good to start at, i.e. Fantastic Sams, Great Clips, Supercuts. I'd like to hear from someone who can offer me more insight on this matter.

Where is the best place to get a response on love advice?

I had a boyfriend (Kristin) who gave me all of himself to me. His family accepted me for who I am and changed my life. I did something REALLY stupid and the family including Kristin gave me an ultimatum about two paths I can choose from...I felt really ashamed about the whole incident, I didn't want to choose the path that involved him in my life because (1) I have the tendency to feel I don't deserve much, so I self-destruct my life and (2) I was petrified of the commitment. After that, two weeks later I replaced those broken feelings with hope of a new relationship with my new boyfriend (Eric) but, its not working. There is not a day that goes by without Kristin in my mind. I am in love with this man. The problem is, I put myself in a pickle. I am living with my new boyfriend and don't want to hurt his feelings by leaving him for the man I am truly in love with. Not just that, I don't want to beg the family to let me back in since I abandoned them! I know now that life is miserable without Kristin in my life. I love him. Someone out there help! I feel trapped in my own irrational decisions! What should I do?

Do you like pickles——?

If you mean the pickle I think then yes.. if you mean a food and edible pickle then, it depends. If it's sour no. If it's dill, yummy =D

What should i expect? Does he want us to be more than friends now?

i think he has a thing for you. so you should expect a little more on your date he will probably tell you he likes you or something. good luck, hope hail likes you! i mean hope he likes you!

How do the police handle a threat? No proof?

Call the police

Retaking sat vs retaking sat II?

"Not so great" -- hmm, someone's fishing for compliments. If you're smart enough to get those scores, you're smart enough to understand how they are in comparison to others' score. "well below average" -- even if the average is 800 (which I'm pretty damn sure it's not), a 710/720 is not well below. A 620 is well below.

Italics vs. quotation marks?

I know what goes with what but I'm stuck on games. For instance, say you were playing a board game like Life or Clue, would this be italics or quotation marks?

What is Texas, conservative or Liberal?

Texas remains a conservative state. The suburb areas continue to get larger, and the vast majority who move there are conservatives. The Texas House and Senate this past November added more conservative members making the Texas Legislature overwhelmingly Republican. The border areas lean Democrat, but their population base is also heavily Hispanic.

Atheists, Christians, Agnostics, and others: Are you willing to accept that you are ignorant?

Yes- I know that I'm ignorant. I'm ignorant about astrophysics and german literature and so many other things that I, along with basically every other human being on the face of the planet, know next to nothing compared to the vast amount of information that is out there. I still learn as much as I can though, which, by definition, is the opposite of willfully ignorant.

Can you rate my qualities?

i would if i was younger and it depended on how cute u were lol haha u cant just judge urself as looking horrible and being overweight...trust me :)

Skateboarding Help | Heelflip?

Right after take-off, focus on bringing your feet together, and nothing else, and just keep practicing.

Monday, July 11, 2011

I am thinking of buying a horse.?

I am an 8th grade girl. I have lessons once a week. My dream horse is a paint/thoroughbred mix. I know a lot about horses. Any tips for me? What breed should I get? And how to I find a place to board it? Thanks

What dares can we do while playing our version of SilentLibrary at church mission camp?!?

We are bored and want something interesting to do. We are going to try and be quiet and do stupid stuff without laughing just like MTV's Silent Library. It is probably just going to be teenage girls playing. Remember we are at church camp so nothing inappropriate or harmful. Our ideas so far are leap frog and eating pickle salt. Please help. We need more ideas!

HELP URGENTLY! There is not a file on me in my boarding school...?

I suspect that because of your prior questions that the file has been put somewhere else. The lack of information may be via agreement with your uncle. I think you have no choice but to drop it and get on with your life. Best of luck to you.

Was there a favorite treat meal when you were a child?

growing up i was the youngest of 4 children my dad was very ill and unable to work , so my mom was the only one with a pay check , now while we didnt go hungry we alway grew a huge garden , and my mom and us kids canned, froze or dried everything , we raised a hog every year and butchered our own chickens. but our big treat every saturday (grocery shopping day) was my mom would buy ground round, real buns , frozen fench fries and cottage cheese sliced onion, tomato, homemade pickles, mayo ( still the best hambuger i ever had) and a 6 pack of coke one bottle for each of us and to this day its my favorite meal my job was to put the cokes in the freezer to get cold , so i had to keep a close eye on them so they wouldnt freeze and break , looking back i think this was to get me out of the way while my mom cooked it was the one day a week we were all home at the same time, i loved saturdays

Will Bachmann win the vote for presidency?

If so, will the majority of the votes be milf votes and will that outweigh black votes coming from Obama's gullible fans?

Is being a drama teacher the right path for me?

Yes, even if you decided not to follow-up with becoming a theater performer, a movie extra or actress, you can still use the skill in a beauty shop as a beautician or as a drama teacher. If those careers did not interest you, then you could continue in a four year college and get a bachelor's degree with one or two major areas where your interests may have turned after you receive your BA degree. Good luck.

Will winning the soldier of the month board lift my PT flag?

I was selected to go by my platoon sgt. My spc was supposed to be automatic, except I failed my push ups on the test i took when i first came here, so i was flagged. Everything else is 70-80%. I dunno if they would waive it because I'm a hard worker and this was the only pt test I've failed. probably not, I'm just curious.

Are they the Big Bad Bruins?

I think it's wishful thinking. The Habs man handled the Bruins all year and even in the 7 game series constantly outhitting them and the Canucks will do the same. The Bruins are just too slow and it's painfully obvious

Locker Decor?!? (zebra)?

Okay So im going into 7th grade and I fianlly decided i want to decorate my locker zebra print (its a top locker) All I have so far is zebra wall paper and a black dry erase board from last year. Does anyone have any cute ideas to decorate my locker? Thanks!!

Why do people deny my ninja skills?

Listen up, Mate. It's really cool that you can do all that great stuff without any formal training, I suppose, especially the one with the jars, but you can't earn a livelihood with your ninja abilities... You may use your abilities to help others or entertain yourself, but I think that your mother is right in saying that you need a real job to earn for your family. But on the other hand, I want to sympathize with you for it's really wrong of people to not respect your abilities and give you space to hone them. So keep in touch with your Ninja side while you make your family proud!

Should I get my cat on a heartworm prevention medication?

I would if i were you. All of our pets use Heart-guard and we haven't had anything wrong with our pets. I would recommend it. Better safe than sorry.

What are some good work outs to do?

Okay well I have a little bit of belly and thy fat.. Not a lot but I wanna have a flat belly (not abs) and nice legs so I don't feel chubby I guess lol.. Diets work too I just don't want to go like over board like most people. Thanks

Help, my period and I want to eat EVERYTHING!?

A lot of times when you're on your period you get cravings. So, just eat what you are craving. I always crave spaghetti when I'm on my period, and I always eat it, and it makes me feel better. Your body is just craving certain foods.

Are we being picky? Or is it really preferences?

I think some love is superficial. Usually those are the relationships that don't last more than a year. Truly loving someone doesn't mean loving their flaws as well as their positives. It means loving them enough to be able to overlook their flaws and go beyond them. My husband is a wonderful man and I love him very much but he still drives me nuts at times. I love him but I don't have to like him all the time. My favorite kind of love is the kind that lasts forever and when 1 person passes away from old age their spouse dies shortly after not from illness or disease but from a broken heart from missing their other half. It's sappy and corny but a wonderful way to live a life.

Financial planning for housewife?

I am a stay at home mom wondering what financial planning strategies I should be considering. Have two small children and am in a stable and supportive marriage. I opened a Roth IRA, but never funded it because I felt overwhelmed with all the choices out there & got lost in the reams of rollover paperwork. Also wondering if there are good alternatives to 529s for the kiddies. I value backpacking across Europe just as much as college and worry that if money isn't spent in an approved way - the penalties on 529s would outweigh the benefits. Thanks for your help!!

Even if the oil doesn't run out completely it will go the way of coal in the U.K and Sambre-Meuse Valley?

I agree with you. Oil will never run out; it will just become prohibitively expensive. That is why in the end we must develop controlled thermonuclear fusion power. With this technology, energy will be cheap and plentiful and literally limitless. There is a new fusion reactor under construction in southern France which should prove the concept. It should be operational by 2014.

Will she get over me too quickly so she won't get back with me?

My girlfriend broke up with me about 4 weeks ago, and we had been dating from the start of January, on and off, so for 3 months, then a 2 week break and then another 2 weeks. We did lots of things together and we both lost our virginity with each other too. We had been friends for ages and we kissed and then things progressed to us dating. Anyway, she suffers from depression, and it gradually started getting worse from about mid January when she started seeing doctors and being on medication. I stuck by her even though some days were unbelievably hard since she would push me away and I thought we were in love. Anyway, we split up and got back together, and then she broke up with me again, claiming that everything was too hard for her and she can't deal with relationships. The thing is, we stayed close, for a week it was like nothing had really changed but then over the past week or so we've fallen further and further apart, but I've still seen her pretty much daily because we go to the same school. So making her miss me hasn't really been an option, and even though we have made up, things are still tough, as we do still argue sometimes. She sometimes claims she still likes/loves me, and every now and then I see little glimmers of her still liking me and potentially maybe getting back with me, but this is outweighed by her showing she doesn't still like me. I won't be seeing her till Friday now, and then after that I'm on holiday for a week. In the past whenever we haven't been with each other for a long time, the next time we meet up everything is good because we've missed one another, and that's how she got back with me last time, we hadn't spoken in 5 days and she realised she wanted me back. So I was thinking of doing something with her a week on Friday. But then just over a week later she goes away on holiday for 2 and a half months. I'm so worried that she will get with a guy for the holiday and end up having sex with him and stuff like that. See my hope is that she will come back from her holiday feeling better because she will have her space and time to recover away from everyday life, and so when she comes back she will perhaps want to date again, she hints that could be something she will want to do. I know I just have to wait and see, but will she get over me in those months? We have always been close, so I don't know if she will. And what should I do? I still love her, but I just don't know what to do.

Why is there so much hate against theists/ religion on here?

They're constantly posting off topic, insulting, stupid questions. This annoys me. If they act like a decent human being to me, I act like a decent human being back.

Having trouble beating a street brawler in a MMA styled sparring match?

here i love to fight so wat u need to do is is just stay focused on the street brawler and never get mad ok and just make your move when he drops his gard ok i train mma/ufc just do it ok try to find a mma teacher and train for a month and go back to him and kick his ***

Does medication work for anyone?

I have depression and social phobia. I was very interested in trying medication to help with the problem, because therapy/counseling never really worked to well for me. I've done a lot of research about different medications and all I find are people saying "don't take anti-depressants, they make you feel even more worthless" or "the side effects from anxiety medication outweigh the good effects form it" and so on about how bad medication is. Has anyone had any GOOD experiences with medication for depression/anxiety? I feel like that's my last option but everything I hear about it doesn't make it sound too appealing.

Hi ive been playin monster hunter freedom unite and i need to know how to play with others step by step how?

i need help to try to figure out step by step how to play with others i go on line i know tht and then u have to be in the same gathering hall and then u pick a quest ant then it be on the board but it onlu shows up on mine not the others

Would you want to be famous.?

I have always thought about this. I wanted to be an actress, I would LOVE to be in a movie because it looks so fun. Like yea, I thought being famous would be nice. But I only thought that because I kinda wanted to be more known, have lots of money, travel all over the world. But when you think about it, the bad outweighs the good. I don't want to be stalked, have cameras in my face 24/7 like I would get sooooo irritated. I like being alone sometimes, a lot actually and I would never get that. I don't even like going in front of my friends with pimples or with my skin looking dull. Imagine paparazzi!!! I would like to walk and go get a sandwich and not get hounded for autographs. I know I would get irritated and curse someone out, or like beat paparrazzi with a stick or something. And you always have to change something about yourself. Like I'm in modeling now, more like commercial print modeling and I had to change for that. Like I LOVED my light brown hair, absolutely loved it. But the modeling people said I should keep it dark so I dyed it back. And I want a nose ring, but I cant get that with my modeling. Like I dont want to be told what to do, I want to live my life the way I want to!!! So I think the bad totally outweighs the good. So that's my view on it, would you guys want to be famous.? explain why or why not.?