Why does it seem that the cons of pregnancy outweigh the pros?

With my first I had toxemia I couldn't have ANY salt(actually very difficult to find food with no salt) I gained over a hundred pounds was on bed rest for three months and my second I went into labor at 25 weeks and had to take pills to stop my labor. I was taking almost 20 pills a day and was on bed rest once I threw up and went into labor!!!! But now I have two very beautiful kind caring boys and I would do it all again and again. And now my youngest is almost three and I miss being pregnant. I miss feeling the flutter in my stomach before they really start kicking. It's such an awesome feeling kind of like your stomach is doing the wave LOL. I miss the being able to rub my tummy and feel MY CHILD INSIDE. And one of the best pros, you get to eat as much ad you want and nobody judges you LOL. You will always hear alot of bad stuff but it's ALL worth it. Not many people go online and say oh help I'm having the easiest pregnancy everything is going good help what domi do LOL. People only go on when they want to vent or figure out what wrong and why so you'll hear alot of the bad but there really is alot of great things about being pregnant!!!!!